Alcoholics Anonymous as a Cult
Scorecard, Answers 31 to 39.
by A. Orange
(To go back and forth between the questions and the answers for
Alcoholics Anonymous, click on the numbers of the questions and
answers.)
31.
Dishonesty, Deceit, Denial, Falsification, and Rewriting History.
A.A. scores a 10.
A.A. is immensely dishonest:
- A.A. practices
deceptive
recruiting.
- It masks and hides the true nature of the
organization by saying that it's
"Spiritual, not religious".
- It tells newcomers that "Our goal is to
help you quit drinking", rather than
"Our real purpose is to make ourselves
of maximum use to God".
(The Big Book, 3rd Edition, page 77.)
- A.A. hides the ugly details of its history from newcomers and
faithful old-timers alike. A.A. doesn't want to admit that
the real spiritual, theological father of A.A. is
Dr. Frank Nathan Daniel
Buchman, a renegade Lutheran minister who founded a cult religion
called "The Oxford Group," and who
admired Adolf Hitler, and who believed that a great world government
would be having Christian Fascist dictators running all of the nations
of the world.
- And A.A. doesn't want you to know to what extent both
William G. Wilson and Dr. Robert Smith were enthusiastic converts and
happy true believers in
the evil fascist cult religion that
Frank Buchman created.
- And A.A. really doesn't want you to know that Bill Wilson and
Dr. Bob merely adapted Frank Buchman's cult religion to their own
ends when they created Alcoholics Anonymous, and that, essentially,
Alcoholics Anonymous
is Buchmanism.
In his book, Alcoholics Anonymous Comes Of Age, Wilson described
how he hid the Oxford Group roots of Alcoholics Anonymous from newcomers:
When first contacted, most alcoholics just wanted to find sobriety,
nothing else. They clung to their other defects, letting go only
little by little. They simply did not want to get "too good
too soon."
The Oxford Groups' absolute concepts -- absolute
purity, absolute honesty, absolute unselfishness, and absolute love --
were frequently too much for the drunks. These ideas had to be fed
with teaspoons rather than by buckets.
Besides, the Oxford Groups' "absolutes" were expressions
peculiar to them. This was a terminology which might continue
to identify us in the public mind with the Oxford Groupers, even
though we had completely withdrawn from their fellowship.
Alcoholics Anonymous Comes Of Age,
William G. Wilson, pages 74-75.
Alcoholics Anonymous is still hiding its Oxford Group cult religion roots today.
And A.A. is also hiding the intensely religious nature of the A.A. program from beginners,
until they are better indoctrinated.
A.A. feeds newcomers the real facts by
"teaspoons rather than by buckets", and doesn't honestly
tell people the whole truth, straight out front, about just what
membership in A.A. really entails. That is
deceptive recruiting.
- A.A. hides the truth about its founders.
A.A. doesn't want you to know
what kind of
nuts both William G. Wilson
and Dr. Robert Smith really were, so A.A.W.S. Inc. keeps a great
mass of
historical records and
documents locked up and
inaccessible to scholars and historians.
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The definition of sobriety that A.A. uses is false.
Neither sobriety nor good mental health require
doing Bill Wilson's
Buchmanite Twelve Steps.
Joining a cult religion
and trying to get all other excessive drinkers to join it too
is not sobriety or mental health.
Bill Wilson was not very accurate or realistic when describing
Alcoholics Anonymous:
- Bill Wilson started the tradition of hiding A.A.'s
Buchmanite
roots while he was writing the Big Book.
Bill purged the Big Book of almost all references to the Oxford
Group, and of every single reference to Frank Buchman, in
order to distance A.A. from the very unpopular Oxford Group
Movement.
- And Wilson wasn't very accurate about himself, either.
He had a habit of saying that
he was poor and starving, and
not getting any money for all of his hard work, while
he was really grabbing all of the A.A.
money that he could get his hands on.
Speaking of which, the official A.A. story of the
publication of the Big Book
is a work of fiction.
In the Big Book, Bill wrote:
"None of us makes a sole vocation of this work..."
The Big Book, William G. Wilson,
3rd Edition, page 19.
But Bill did. He never worked a straight job again.
Bill arranged
A.A. finances so that A.A. supported him
comfortably for the rest of his life, with a beautiful
house in the country and a free Cadillac car...
Bill and his wife Lois were living so high that Lois even had
a private secretary,
Francis Hartigan, who wrote a biography of Bill Wilson.
And
Bill had numerous mistresses on the side,
and he even used the A.A. headquarters to give them employment.
That doesn't quite match the public image of the poor recovering
alcoholic, poor as a church mouse, completely self-sacrificing,
just living to help other suffering alcoholics, now does it?
- The strangest comment on Wilson's morality has to be the
item that comes from Bill Wilson himself. Bill made a large set
of autobiographical tape recordings before he died, and two biographies
were written using them, Robert Thomsen's Bill W., and
the Hazelden Foundation's Bill W., My First 40 Years.
In that Hazelden book, we read:
There will be future historical revelations about Bill's character
and behavior in recovery that will be interpreted, by some,
as direct attacks on the very foundation of AA.
Bill often wished he could be just another AA member with no
trace of notoriety. But such revelations will, in the end, only
reinforce Bill's humanness and, most important, the extent to
which Bill acted to the best of his ability to protect AA from
himself.
Bill W., My First 40 Years,
"William G. Wilson" (posthumously ghost-written by
Hazelden staff),
Hazelden, page 170.
What a crock. Considering what we already know, we can only wonder what
horrible things AAWS is still hiding in their sealed archives.
They often claim that Bill's constant, outrageous philandering proved
his "humanness",
but that's a pretty lame rationalization.
And Bill didn't try to protect AA from himself.
He robbed A.A. blind and did whatever the hell he pleased, A.A. be
damned.
The old-timers even had to form a
"Founder's
Watch Committee" just to follow Bill Wilson
around and watch him,
and keep him from publicly embarrassing A.A. yet again by
thirteenth-stepping all of the pretty young women who came to
the meetings.
Bill was such a
blatant philanderer that he would take two women to an A.A. meeting,
and seat them one on each side of him, and spend the whole meeting
with his hands on their legs.
Bill Wilson was also a sexual predator who showed no concern for the
welfare of the pretty women who came to A.A. seeking help for a drinking problem.
- Bill Wilson was grossly dishonest about the A.A. success rate.
Basically, he lied like a rug,
and fudged the numbers, and hid and covered up the relapses and failures of A.A.
members.
- Alcoholics Anonymous is still highly dishonest about its success rate, and
the efficacy of A.A. treatment. The more moderate members
say things like,
"Well, very few people can quit as you did,
just on your own, without a sponsor or a support group. A.A. is the
broader way that can work for everybody."
That is just the opposite of the truth.
Basically, A.A. does not work at all. It does not have a success rate.
A.A. ignores the facts, and
just persists in repeating the chant that
"A.A. is the proven
way, the one that works, the most cost-effective treatment,
the one that is enormously successful,
the one that has saved millions, the best alcoholism
treatment program in the world, the only treatment that works."
- Wilson claimed that
"Alcoholics Anonymous requires no beliefs", but that was and is
totally untrue -- just a lie intended to fool people into joining his cult
religion. It is impossible to work the Twelve Steps without believing in the
Alcoholics Anonymous version of God -- a dictatorial, micro-managing old-Testament
patriarch Who will kill you if you do not believe in Him and follow His dictates,
and Who will bless you with Sobriety if you do (as well as answering your prayers and
granting your wishes).
See the file on
"The Bait-and-Switch Con Game"
for several of the
ways in which A.A. hides from newcomers what beliefs are really required:
Also see the file,
"A.A. and Religious Faith"
for an analysis of Bill's fanatical rant against agnostics and atheists,
which declares that they must all be converted into true believers in
his "faith" by giving up their human intelligence and
their rational, thinking minds. (That is not a joke or an exageration.)
- Likewise,
"There are no 'musts' in Alcoholics Anonymous, only 'oughtas'."
And,
"This is a program of suggested steps."
And,
"Take what you want, and leave the rest."
But then Bill Wilson wrote:
Unless each A.A. member follows to the best of his ability our
suggested
[MY required]
Twelve Steps to recovery, he almost certainly signs his
own death warrant. His drunkenness and dissolution are not penalties
inflicted by people in authority; they result from his personal
disobedience to [MY] spiritual principles.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William G. Wilson, page 174.
So you have made a fatal mistake,
and you are being disobedient to
"God's spiritual principles",
and you will almost certainly die,
if you don't do Bill Wilson's "suggested"
Twelve Steps (that he actually
got from a Hitler-loving fascist minister named Dr. Frank N. D. Buchman).
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Then there is "The First Woman to become sober in A.A.".
Marty Mann was not the first woman to become sober in A.A.
She was the first woman to stay sober.
The first woman to become sober in A.A. was Florence Rankin, who wrote the
story "A Feminine Victory",
which appeared in the first edition of the Big Book.
Unfortunately, the Twelve Steps didn't really work for her, either,
for very long. She relapsed, and disappeared. (She is said to have committed
suicide in Washington, D.C..)
So Bill Wilson quietly removed her story from the second edition of
the Big Book in 1955, and A.A. started yammering a new party line
about how Marty Mann was the first woman to achieve sobriety in A.A.:
Our first woman alcoholic had been a patient of Doctor Harry Tiebout's, and
he handed her a prepublication manuscript copy of the Big Book.
Alcoholics Anonymous Comes Of Age,
William G. Wilson, page 18, and
The A.A. Way Of Life, William G. Wilson, page 302.
That statement contains two lies:
- The book was not a prepublication manuscript; it was a multilith printing without
any copyright notice in it.
Bill Wilson was so eager to make some quick money off of the book
that he invalidated any possible copyright on the book by
prematurely printing and selling multilith copies of the Big Book
for $3.50 each (without the permission or knowledge of anyone in Akron).
The author of the story "ACE FULL...SEVEN ELEVEN"
was so outraged by Bill Wilson's dishonesty that
he demanded that his story be removed from the book.
Then, when Bill Wilson realized the seriousness of his error in voiding
the copyright,
he fraudulently applied for the copyright in his own name,
claiming that he was the sole author of the book, and that he owned a
publishing company called "Works Publishing" (which did not exist).
But it was too late; the copyright was already invalid,
and it still is. Nevertheless, ever since then, Wilson repeated the story
that the first printing was just a few "prepublication" "review" copies
that didn't count, and that did contain a copyright notice.
Dr. Bob's
daughter, Sue Smith Windows, says that Bill Wilson was lying.
- The woman patient of Dr. Tiebout
who was described in that quote, Marty Mann, was not the first
woman in A.A.. That is obvious and undeniable, because another woman,
Florence Rankin, had already written her story and put it into the first edition
of the Big Book that Marty Mann was reading while she was in Blythewood Sanitarium.
Marty's story didn't get into the Big Book until the
second edition, after Florence had relapsed and disappeared.
But Bill Wilson didn't want to admit that the first woman in A.A.
went back to drinking, so he constantly repeated the lie that Marty Mann
was the first woman in A.A.
(Today, they sometimes carefully add
deceptive qualifiers like:
"Marty Mann was the first woman to achieve long-term sobriety
in A.A.",
or,
"Marty Mann was the first woman to successfully quit drinking
in A.A.".)
That "revisionist history" routine is just totally typical
of A.A..
They have little or no respect for the truth, and change or hide their history
whenever and however it suits them. (It reminds me of Stalinist Russia,
where they rewrote the history books every time Stalin changed his
mind about something.)
AAWS and the GSO also keep large masses of historical documents
and records locked up in sealed archives,
hidden from scholars and historians,
to keep people from learning the truth about A.A. and Bill Wilson.
Eventually, 15 years after Bill Wilson's death, the A.A. staff revealed this detail:
The name "One Hundred Men" fell by the wayside because
of the objections of Florence R., at the time the only female member.
(Her story in the first edition was "A Feminine Victory."
She later returned to drinking and died an apparent suicide in Washington, D.C.)
PASS IT ON; The story of Bill Wilson and how the A.A. message reached
the world, "anonymous" (really, A.A.W.S. staff), 1984, page 202.
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Dr. Robert Smith, 1949.
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And speaking of Doctor Bob's daughter Sue Smith, the book
Doctor Bob and the Good Old-Timers, written by the anonymous staff
of Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc., contains a total cover-up
of her story. According to that book, Sue Smith and Ernie Galbraith, who was
A.A. Number Four, were in love, and got married against the wishes of Doctor Bob.
That is a deceptive half-truth.
Sue Smith [Windows] wrote in her own book Children of the Healer:
the story of Doctor Bob's kids, that
Doctor Bob forced the disgusting constantly-relapsing philandering
older alcoholic Ernie on her in order to break up her romance with her
high-school sweetheart Ray Windows, whom Doctor Bob didn't like.
Then Ernie seduced Susan and took her for himself, which isn't what Doctor
Bob had in mind.
See the item "Disturbed Gurus" for the story of
Doctor Bob using Ernie to get rid of Ray Windows.
Dr. Bob was a textbook example of a petty tyrant --
a grovelling toady to anyone superior to him, like his wife as she searched
his pockets for hidden whiskey bottles,
but an autocratic tyrant to anyone weaker than him, like his children,
or sick, detoxing, alcoholics whom he made
surrender on their knees before him.
But that isn't the picture of Doctor Bob that the A.A. organization likes
to publicize.
32.
Different Levels of Truth
A.A. scores a 10.
A.A. has at least three levels of "truth":
- There is the nice, bland, public truth (the exoteric,
or outsider's, truth): "We just want to
love you until you can love yourself. We just want to help
you quit drinking. We are just a bunch of nice people, ex-drinkers,
who stay sober by helping others."
- There is the insider's religious truth (the esoteric,
or insider's, truth): "Our real purpose is
to make ourselves of maximum use to God. Our real purpose is
to get people to
Seek and Do the Will of
God.
Our real purpose is to make people
love God and call Him by name.
Our real
purpose is to bring the whole world under 'God-control'."
- And then there is the really secret inner circle's truth, that of the
oldest old-timers, the executives of the G.S.O. and A.A.W.S.
and the Board of Trustees, who meet in secret to set
their agenda and the strategy for achieving their goals.
They have even done things like
sue and commit
perjury in the courts of two nations to get A.A. members
bankrupted or put in prison, to stop the distribution of cheap or free
copies of the old, out-of-copyright first edition of the
Big Book to poor people,
which conceivably might have threatened some AAWS profits.
And they did that to faithful A.A. members who were "carrying the
message", not to some unbelievers or outsiders!
And again, the real and complete history of A.A. is only revealed to these
special insiders. They are the only ones allowed to see the historical
documents that are kept hidden in the locked and sealed archives.
Ken Ragge comments:
The line is not always sharp and clear between the two "levels
of truth." [i.e., between the outsider's and insider's versions of the truth.]
I have heard AA members on radio interviews
speak in detail of alcoholism as a spiritual disease. Normally,
all that "should" be said is that it is a fatal,
progressive and incurable disease. Saying "spiritual
disease" is too much of a tip-off to the true nature of
"the Program." It might turn away "those who
could have been helped."
The Real AA, Ken Ragge
See the file on
Bait-And-Switch Stunts for many more
examples of "two levels of truth", where the newcomers
get one "truth", and the old-timers have another.
33.
Newcomers can't think right.
The elder cult members believe that prospects and new converts are
incapable of exercising good judgement.
A.A. scores a 10.
A.A. members always assume that newcomers are suffering from the
mental symptoms of severe alcoholism: the clouded thinking, unrealistic
beliefs and expectations, rationalizing drinking, and being in denial
about having a drinking problem.
And, "they haven't been around long enough to know."
A.A. believes that newcomers must get sponsors to supervise them, help
with their indoctrination, and do their thinking for them.
A.A. members also always consider any disagreements a beginner may
have with the standard program as examples of "diseased
thinking" -- problems that will disappear when the beginner
has "recovered enough" (meaning: been indoctrinated enough).
This item is tricky because alcoholics who have just quit drinking often
really do have mental problems like cloudy-headedness, unclear thinking,
short-term memory loss, and attention and sleep disorders.
And some really are in denial about how bad their drinking problem is.
But A.A. always assumes the worst of newcomers,
and takes advantage of the newcomers' weaknesses
to convert them into new believers before their thinking clears up
too much:
- "Your best thinking got you here."
- "You are in denial."
- "Your thinking is alcoholic."
- "Stop your stinkin' thinkin'."
- "You have a thinking problem, not a drinking problem."
- "You must do 90 meetings in 90 days to make
a good beginning."
- "Just follow the program. It's too early in your recovery
for you to start being creative."
- "You also have not been sober long enough to have a foundation
worthy of long term sobriety."
Ken Ragge, in his book The Real A.A., writes:
One of the major differences between legitimate organizations and
mind-control cults is that, in cults, one of the unanimous opinions is
that the potential new member is incapable of exercising good judgement.
Any disagreement or disbelief of doctrine is treated as a sign of poor
judgment. In AA, this is expressed in the term "alcoholic thinking"
and the phrase, "hasn't been around long enough to know." It is also
expressed in patronizing attitudes.
Patronizing attitudes are also reflected in the names that members use
to describe targets of indoctrination. Scientologists refer to them as
"raw meat," and Oxford Groupers referred to them
as "lost sheep."
Alcoholics Anonymous refers to them as "pigeons,"
"beginners," and
"babies." Of course, all of these terms are used lovingly.
The Real A.A., Chapter 9,
"Meetings,"
Ken Ragge
A.A. members feel comfortable with practicing deceptive recruiting on
the prospects and newcomers, because
they believe that the thinking of a newcomer is so faulty that whatever a
newcomer thinks will always be wrong anyway.
So it doesn't really matter what
they think. Just feed them some happy pablum, and tell them
anything that will mollify them and make them just "Keep
Coming Back" until "their thinking improves"
-- until they are well-indoctrinated, and attending meetings has
become a habit.
The instructions to the recruiters are,
"Dole the truth out by teaspoons, not
buckets."
A.A. often uses the "90 meetings in 90 days" stunt to get
beginners to Keep Coming Back long enough to be converted
into new believers.
The whole
recruiting process is just one
huge mess of
bait-and-switch stunts and other
deceptions.
When one group of Steppers in Ohio was told that A.A. was accused
of brainwashing members, one member said, "If A.A. is doing
brainwashing, then my brain must need a good washing."
Curiously, that was also the opinion of Sun Myung Moon of the
Moonies cult, who said, "Americans' minds are so dirty,
so full of sex and drugs and sin, that their brains need a good
washing." (And Moon made sure that he laundered
and cleaned out their wallets, too, while he was at it.)
And before him, Chuck Dederich, the leader of Synanon,
the 'drug rehab program turned crazy cult',
said almost exactly the same thing:
Purification was another goal of gaming, which Chuck expressed thusly,
"Of course, we brainwash in Synanon. The dirty brains we get
all the time need to be washed for Chrissake!"
Escape From Utopia, William F. Olin, page 210.
34.
The Cult Implants Phobias.
A.A. scores a 10.
A.A. implants lots of fears and phobias:
- Members are taught that they will relapse and die drunk:
- if they leave A.A.
- if they don't do the 12 steps.
- if they don't go to lots and lots of meetings.
- if they don't do what their sponsor says.
- if they try to think for themselves.
- if they do what they want to do, rather than what they are told to do.
- if they "break A.A. unity":
To those now in its fold, Alcoholics Anonymous has made the difference between
misery and sobriety , and often the difference between life and death. A.A. can,
of course, mean just as much to uncounted alcoholics not yet reached.
Therefore, no society of men and women ever had a more urgent need for continuous
effectiveness and permanent unity.
We alcoholics see that we must work together and hang together, else most of us
will finally die alone.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, page 563.
- Members are made to believe that they just can't make it without Alcoholics Anonymous.
None of us in Alcoholics Anonymous is normal.
Our abnormality compels us to go to AA... We all go because we need to.
Because the alternative is drastic, either A.A. or death.
Delirium Tremens, Stories of Suffering and
Transcendence, Ignacio Solares,
Hazelden, page 27.
If you leave, you'll come back on your knees.
-- A.A. slogan
- Members are even taught that they cannot trust their own thinking:
If all our lives we had more or less fooled ourselves, how could we
now be so sure that we weren't still self-deceived?
...
... what comes to us alone may be garbled by our
own rationalization and wishful thinking.
...
Going it alone in spiritual matters is dangerous.
...
Surely then, a novice ought not lay himself open to the chance
of making foolish, perhaps tragic, blunders in this fashion.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
William G. Wilson, pages 59-60.
The alcoholic may say to himself in the most casual way, "It won't burn me
this time, so here's how!" ...
When this sort of thinking is fully established in an individual with
alcoholic tendencies, he has probably placed himself beyond human aid,
and unless locked up, may die or go permanently insane.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, page 24.
- Newcomers are also taught that they are hopelessly doomed to an
alcoholic death from an incurable, progressive disease unless they
join A.A. and do the Twelve Steps forever.
One of Margaret Thaler Singer's
six conditions for a mind-controlling cult
is "Create a sense of powerlessness, covert fear, guilt, and
dependency." A.A. does that quite well.
- And A.A. says that if people quit drinking and manage to stay sober without
Alcoholics Anonymous, those do-it-yourselfers will turn into miserable, insane, terribly
bitter, angry, and unhappy "dry drunks."
- Members are constantly reminded that if they do not completely
give themselves to "this simple program" that their fate
is "Jails, Institutions, or Death."
- People are taught that
their
lives will fall apart unless they
do Bill Wilson's Twelve Steps properly:
We are sober and happy in our A.A. work. Things go well at home and
office. We naturally congratulate ourselves on what later proves to be a far
too easy and superficial point of view. We temporarily cease to grow
because we feel satisfied that there is no need for all of A.A.'s Twelve
Steps for us. ...
Then perhaps life, as it has a way of doing, suddenly hands us a great big
lump that we can't begin to swallow, let alone digest. We fail to get a
worked-for promotion. We lose that good job. Maybe there are serious
domestic or romantic difficulties, or perhaps that boy we thought God
was looking after becomes a military casualty.
What then? Have we alcoholics in A.A. got, or can we get, the resources to
meet these calamities which come to so many?
...
Well, we surely have a chance if we switch from "two-stepping"
to "twelve-stepping," if we are willing to receive that grace
of God which can sustain and strengthen us in any catastrophe.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William G. Wilson,
pages 112-113.
By implication, you don't stand a chance, you won't be able
to handle life in the real world, if you don't spend years
doing all of Bill Wilson's Steps. And you won't get any grace
from God, either, unless you do Bill's Steps. (I guess God will
be mad at you for disobeying Bill Wilson.)
- Hard-core true believers insist that you cannot change the
ritual and ceremony of meetings even one tiny little bit or you
will break the magic and somebody will relapse and die drunk.
- Likewise, they will tell you that you cannot criticize A.A.,
or tell the truth about A.A., or some weak alcoholic will get pushed
over the edge, relapse, and die drunk.
(That's the propaganda stunt called
It's Too Terrible To Tell.)
Frank Buchman loved to
use guilt to manipulate prospects, and get them to surrender to
the Oxford Group cult, but Bill Wilson and Doctor Bob found that fear
worked much better with alcoholics.
Just explain to the alcoholics how
hopeless their
situation is, how they have an incurable disease, and how they are doomed to
drinking themselves to death, and how horrible it's going to be,
and you have their attention.
The word "death" appears in the first 164 pages of the Big
Book (plus the Forward, Introduction, and Prefaces)
15 times. Bill Wilson constantly threatened the faithful
with death unless they
followed his instructions exactly.
And the Big Book has many stories like this:
I did not know that I had no power over alcohol, that I, alone and
unaided, could not stop; that I was on a downgrade, tearing along at full speed
with all my brakes gone, and that the end would be a total smash-up,
death or insanity.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
story Promoted To Chronic, page 471.
There is that sense of powerlessness and helplessness again.
Bill Wilson documented the origins of the fear induction strategy like this:
Then came that little man that we who live in this area saw so much, him
with the kind blue eyes and white hair, Doc Silkworth. You'll remember
that Doc said to me, "look Bill, you're preaching at these people
too much. You've got the cart before the horse. This 'white flash' experience
of yours scares those drunks to death. Why don't you put the fear of God
into them first. You're always talking about James and The Varieties of
Religious Experiences and how you have to deflate people before they can
know God, how they must have humility. So, why don't you use the tool of
the medical hopelessness of alcoholism for practically all those involved.
Why don't you talk to the drunk about that allergy they've got and that
obsession that makes them keep on drinking and guarantees that they will
die. Maybe when you punch it into them hard it will deflate them enough
so that they will find what you found."
Bill Wilson, speaking at the Memorial service for Dr. Bob,
Nov. 15, 1952,
file available here.
Bill Wilson followed Dr. Silkworth's advice, so from the very
beginning, A.A. has been deliberately using fear of death to
manipulate people's minds and get them to do what Bill Wilson
wants. Like:
Unless each A.A. member follows to the best of his ability our
suggested
[my required]
Twelve Steps to recovery, he almost certainly signs his
own death warrant.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
William G. Wilson, page 174.
For if an alcoholic failed to perfect and enlarge his spiritual life
through work and self-sacrifice for others, he could not survive the
certain trials and low spots ahead. If he did not work, he would surely
drink again, and if he drank, he would surely die. Then faith would be
dead indeed. With us it is just like that.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, pages 14-15.
35.
The Cult is Money-Grubbing.
The cult is preoccupied with fund-raising.
A.A. scores a 10.
The average A.A. meeting, where they
just pass the hat, does not seem to act like that at all.
A.A. would appear, to the casual observer, to be completely
innocent in this regard.
But they do have quite a profitable business going
with publishing the books of the founder, Bill Wilson.
If a faithful member
wants his library to be complete, he will have to buy:
- the 'Big Book', Alcoholics Anonymous
- Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
- Pass It On
- Alcoholics Anonymous Comes Of Age
- The A.A. Way of Life: As Bill Sees It
- Language of the Heart
- Daily Meditations
The A.A. headquarters also gets royalties on all of its books from
all of the foreign countries where they are published.
And they often get a cut of the collection baskets that go around.
It adds up.
A few years ago, the A.A. G.S.O. published a financial report that
stated that they had $10 million in the bank and in safe investments,
just a little "prudent reserve" for a rainy day.
Also, A.A. does not exist in a vacuum, and it never has. A.A. has
always had auxiliary or front organizations, from the very
earliest days. Marty Mann, the first woman to get
and stay sober
in A.A., founded the National Council on Alcoholism (NCA), so that there
would be an organization to push the A.A. point of view and engage
in public controversy. (The NCA morphed into the NCADD, the National
Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence.)
A little later,
Dr. G. Douglas Talbott
founded an organization aimed at
doctors, the American Society of Addiction Medicine (ASAM), with the same
goals as the NCA -- to promote the 12-step cult.
There is likewise yet another front group for just for 12-step-pushing
counselors,
the NAADAC, the National Association of Alcoholism
and Drug Abuse Counselors.
Those front groups have been campaigning to get more money into
the hands of A.A.-member "counselors"
for sixty years, by demanding that alcoholics
receive "fair treatment" for their "disease."
They've been practicing extortion on both the government and
the health insurance industry for a long time.
And Hazelden, with its
super-expensive residential treatment
facility ($15,000 for 28 days),
and its
proselytizing publishing
house, acts as yet another arm of the octopus.
And the largest part of the hidden 12-step empire is the
entire alcoholism and drug addiction treatment industry, which the
12-step believers totally dominate and run as counselors and
administrators, and which pays many hundreds of millions of
dollars into the pockets of A.A. members annually,
by employing large numbers of
professional A.A. proselytizers as "counselors".
The health insurance industry is supporting an awful lot of
fanatical A.A. recruiters and preachers, whether they like it
or not.
In turn, those counselors raise millions of dollars
annually for the national headquarters of A.A.,
Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc.,
by having the detox and rehab facilities buy the books that
AAWS publishes, like the insane "Big Book",
Alcoholics Anonymous.
And all of that is all being done in the name of giving those poor
diseased alcoholics "fair treatment."
In addition, A.A. members can, as private citizens, do what they
cannot do as A.A. members. If that sounds confusing, look at it
this way, like they do:
- While a person is declaring that he is a member of A.A.,
he must remain anonymous, and cannot engage in any "outside
controversy."
He must also obey the Eleventh Tradition, which states that A.A. is a
program of attraction, not promotion.
And he must obey the Seventh Tradition, which states that every
group must be self-supporting, declining outside contributions.
- But when a person says, "Now I am acting as a private
citizen, and not as an A.A. member, and I will not reveal my A.A.
membership to anyone," then he can engage in outside controversy,
and promote A.A., and raise money,
and do anything else that is forbidden to a well-behaved A.A.
member (except drink alcohol).
Thus, A.A. members who don't reveal that they are A.A. members can lobby
Congress to get more money for "treatment" of alcoholics from
the government, and also lobby for laws to force the health
insurance industry to pay for more "treatment," all of
which will of course be supplied by A.A. and N.A. members who work
as counselors who push more people into A.A. and N.A., who will in
turn then donate money, and buy books, which will send more money to
the greedy perjurers at the national headquarters, who will run
more TV commercials to bring in more recruits...
And the racket goes on and on...
And A.A. members who don't reveal that they are A.A. members
can advertise their drug and alcohol treatment facilities as
having a really great program, a program based on
"the best, the most successful, the most proven methods"
(12-step techniques), without ever bothering to reveal the
fact that the "treatment" program is really nothing but
a course of
Introduction to Twelve-Step Cult Religion.
Neither do they have to reveal that their standard practice
is to keep clients in "treatment" -- going to
"group therapy" sessions by day,
and A.A. meetings at night -- until their health insurance
money is exhausted, and then to "graduate" them,
in order to maximize the facility's profits, which
they call "getting the clients the maximum benefits".
That really is the standard, commonplace practice.
The national headquarters of A.A., Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc.
(AAWS), is very conflicted about what their
basic mission really is. The Fifth Tradition clearly states:
"Each group has but one primary purpose -- to carry its message
to the alcoholic who still suffers."
But AAWS has
sued A.A. members in both Germany and Mexico, and
deliberately,
knowingly, blatantly committed perjury,
to stop members from printing cheap copies of old out-of-copyright versions
of the Big Book and giving them to people too poor to buy them, like
Mexican alcoholics, or Swedish and German alcoholics in prison.
(
The long-time A.A. journalist Mitchell K. has done
a good job
of documenting this.
[See list.]
He was there in Germany to witness the
German court proceedings.)
AAWS actually claimed in Mexico that a
"Wyne Parks",
not Bill Wilson and
30 other original A.A. members,
had rather
recently written the Big Book, so it's still under copyright,
and since copyright violations in Mexico,
are criminal, rather than civil, cases,
the Mexican court sentenced the Mexican A.A. member to prison for a year.
AAWS wants all of those poor people in foreign countries to buy
overpriced new books to fatten the AA coffers, in spite of them
already having $10 million in the bank.
Apparently, AAWS has written itself a new charter and some new
traditions, and now its Fifth Tradition says,
"We have but one primary purpose -- to make money."
And the new Sixth Tradition says,
"Problems of spirituality or honesty may easily divert us from
our primary monetary purpose.
We think therefore, that anything that is of genuine spiritual concern
should be incorporated and managed separately, and have no involvement
with Alcoholics Anonymous.
Truth is no object in the pursuit of money.
We all have to put profits ahead of everything else.
We must not let anything else divert us from our primary purpose --
to make money."
Unfortunately, the Board of Trustees of AAWS refuses to answer questions
about their behavior, and they won't tell us what wonderful new
Guidance they have
received from God, instructing them to act in this manner. How are us
lowly individual members supposed to know what to do now, if the
leadership won't reveal God's new Program of His Kingdom
to us? We want to get to Heaven too, you know...
36.
Confession Sessions
A.A. scores a 10.
This one is easy to see, it is downright self-evident,
because every meeting is a confession session.
Not only must members admit their faults to the whole group,
but the members must also confess even more stuff, their innermost secrets,
to their sponsors in the Fifth Step, and again in the Tenth Step.
The slogan is,
"You're Only As Sick As Your Secrets", so
get on your knees and start blabbing.
Remember that guilt induction and confession sessions
were two of the essential elements of
the Red Chinese brainwashing
program.
It's interesting to watch the pattern as newcomers get indoctrinated
and trained in what to say while "sharing" their stories.
If they don't deliver the right rap, the rest of the group will
look at them with increasing impatience, telling them in many subtle
ways:
- You haven't put yourself down yet.
- You haven't said how wonderful the A.A. program and the
Twelve Steps are.
- You haven't told any jokes about yourself and your foolishness yet.
- You haven't said how stupid you are.
- You haven't said how grateful you are to your sponsor for
correcting your thinking and making you see the truth.
- You haven't said how lucky you were to get sent to prison
where you were coerced into joining wonderful A.A. as a condition
of probation...
37.
A System of Punishments and Rewards
A.A. scores a 10.
The A.A. system of rewards and punishments is subtle but powerful.
First off, abstainers are rewarded with tokens or coins and applause and
congratulations for sober time accumulated.
On the other hand, it is very humiliating if someone who had
accumulated six months or a year of sober time has to raise his
hand when asked, "Is anyone here in his or her first 30
days of sobriety?"
So there is consistent pressure to stay sober. But that is only
the tip of the iceberg.
Newcomers are gradually steered towards what they are supposed to
"share" when they are called upon to speak, just by how
the other people react to what they say.
A room full of true believers can be very intimidating.
The group can either ostracize you, or embrace you,
depending on whether they like your behavior and your "sharing."
They will coldly glare at you if you say the wrong things, or
smile and bathe you in warm, loving looks if you say what
they want to hear.
They will laugh at your jokes if you say the right stuff.
They can say a lot through body language, without ever saying a
word out loud.
It doesn't take too long to learn to follow the examples that
the old-timers set.
In his second book, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
A.A. co-founder Bill Wilson
documented the
story of an A.A.
member who refused to believe in God, and who refused to
say what "the elders" wanted to hear. They punished
him by ostracism and hostile attitudes, "all fraternal
charity vanished", and they wished that he would relapse.
Then, when he did, they abandoned him to his death.
In addition, sponsors will either praise or harshly criticize their
sponsees in order to get conformity and the desired behavior.
All of this is enforced with the threat of death: either do what you
are told, or you will relapse and die drunk (the ultimate punishment),
they say.
And, if you do not please your sponsor, he or she can fire you, and
leave you to fend for yourself. That can be terrifying to a newcomer
who fears for his life.
People who have been sentenced to A.A. by a judge or parole officer
face much greater threats of
punishment: either please your sponsor so that he sends in good
reports on you, or else you will get thrown in jail or prison.
In extreme cases, like when A.A. members run organ transplant
centers, the punishment for non-compliance is death.
Dr. Clifton Kirton
reports that when he needed a liver transplant,
and resisted A.A. indoctrination, he was told, essentially, that
he wouldn't get one unless he "internalized" the A.A.
"recovery concepts."
And, if you are picky and hesitant about choosing which old-timer
you wish to have as
your sponsor, they can slap you with condescending remarks like:
"Maybe she's trying to break all known records of the time it's taken
somebody to find a sponsor." The experienced old-timers stash
libraries of such condescending put-downs in their memory banks,
and have them sitting there, just waiting for
some non-conforming newbies to use them on.
38.
An Impossible Superhuman Model of Perfection.
A.A. scores a 10.
In AA, as in all mind control cults, an ahuman model of perfection,
which is impossible to reach, is held out.
- The perfect A.A. member never drinks any alcohol at all.
- The perfect A.A. member goes to A.A. meetings very often, and practices
the Twelve Steps constantly, in all of his affairs.
- The perfect A.A. member never criticizes A.A., Bill Wilson,
the Twelve Steps, or the program.
- The perfect A.A. member feels Serenity and Gratitude at
all times, about everything.
He never feels any negative emotions, especially not any anger
or resentment. For
that matter, he never really feels any passionately strong positive
emotions either. He has learned to "stuff his feelings", and
remain emotionally flat, just maintaining a steady state of
Serenity and Gratitude.
- The perfect A.A. member is completely selfless, and wants
nothing for himself.
- The perfect A.A. member wishes for nothing in life but
to Seek and Do the Will of God.
- The perfect A.A. member never feels any desire to drink
alcohol, because
God
has simply removed the drink problem.
It does not exist for him.
- The perfect A.A. member is a fountain of wisdom and a
great teacher and a good example for newcomers.
He is even a real credit to his race.
- The perfect A.A. member recruits new members constantly,
and keeps all of his sponsees sober.
- The perfect A.A. member is happy to grovel before his
sponsor and God, and wallow in guilt, and confess all of his
moral shortcomings and defects of character, often.
- The perfect A.A. member is happy to "find his or her part
in it", as if he or she controlled the whole world and was responsible
for everything that happened in it.
For example, the perfect A.A. woman who is raped
will not bear any ill will towards her attacker;
she will simply
find her own part in it and figure out how how she made it happen
and how it was all her own fault:
"I dressed too nicely; I made myself look too good; I asked
for it. Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by
mistake."
The perfect A.A. woman will then "make amends"
by
apologizing to her rapist.
The Big Book says:
And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today.
When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing,
or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me,
and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing,
or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this
moment. Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake.
The A.A. Big Book, Alcoholics Anonymous,
3rd Edition, Doctor, Alcoholic, Addict, page 449.
- The perfect A.A. member masochistically, narcissistically grovels before God,
and declares that we must all be entirely
rid of "self":
"God, I offer myself to
Thee -- to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt.
Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy
will.
...
May I do Thy will always!" We thought
well before taking this step making sure we were ready; that
we could at last abandon ourselves utterly to Him.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
page 63.
- The perfect A.A. member knows that the Twelve Steps work,
because the Twelve Steps certainly worked for him, and made him
so holy, Serene, Grateful, wise, and in such constant
conscious contact with God that he is now a living saint...
- And the perfect A.A. member is also very humble.
"The Promises"
are another list of super-human standards.
They are the things that Bill Wilson said the A.A. members
would get after they did Steps One through Nine, and were halfways
through Step Ten -- serenity, peace, confidence, and much more.
(But you never get through or half-through with Step Ten -- it instructs you to continue
working the Steps forever.)
If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we
will be amazed before we are halfway through. We are going to
know a new freedom and a new happiness. We will not regret the
past nor wish to shut the door on it. We will comprehend the
word serenity and we will know peace. No matter how far down
the scale we have gone, we will see how our experience can
benefit others. That feeling of uselessness and self-pity will
disappear. We will lose interest in selfish things and gain
interest in our fellows. Self-seeking will slip away. Our whole
attitude and outlook upon life will change. Fear of people and
of economic insecurity will leave us. We will intuitively know
how to handle situations which used to baffle us. We will suddenly
realize that God is doing for us what we could not do for ourselves.
Are these extravagant promises? We think not. They are being
fulfilled among us, sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. They
will always materialize if we work for them.
The Big Book, 3rd edition, William G. Wilson,
pages 83-84.
The Promises are really just a bunch of veiled accusations, which
are great for guilt induction: The Promises are actually saying, in so
many words, that you are currently a real spiritual slob --
that you don't have peace or serenity or
confidence, and that you feel uselessness, self-pity, and selfishness.
Isn't that clever? By listing all of the wonderful things that people will supposedly
get at some unspecified distant time in the future,
Bill Wilson manages to make people feel really guilty and
inadequate in the present.
And he was such a good mind-manipulator that he even managed
to make people like it. The true believers swear that The Promises are
inspired scripture, and some groups even read them out loud at every meeting.
Obviously, if you believe this nonsense, and compare yourself to those
standards, you are going to find that you are just a miserable failure,
a completely unspiritual slob.
- You will wonder why the Twelve Steps haven't made you into a saint,
like they have done with so many of your fellow group members (who are actually
"Faking It Until They Make It"
and
"Acting As If" and
re-enacting "The Emperor's New Clothes").
- So you will feel horribly guilty and inadequate...
- And then your sponsor will tell you to do the Twelve Steps even
more, and really completely give yourself to this simple
program, this time, and do another Fifth Step, this time leaving
nothing out.
- So the guilt-induction,
confession-session brainwashing routine
is repeated for yet another cycle...
Bill Wilson even declared that "We" are all just pathetic
sinners who can't measure up to God's desired degree of perfection:
Since most of us are born with an abundance of natural desires,
it isn't strange that we often let these far exceed their intended
purpose.
[Whose intended purpose? God's? Mother Nature's?
The Force of Evolution's?]
When they drive us blindly, or we willfully demand that they supply
us with more satisfactions or pleasures than are possible or due us,
that is the point at which we depart from the degree of perfection
that God wishes for us here on earth.
[How do we demand that desires supply us with satisfactions?
Desires are urges or wishes to get some satisfaction,
not the source of satisfaction.
And Just Who is keeping the big account book that determines
how much pleasure is now due us?]
That is the measure of our
character defects, or, if you wish, of our sins.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
William G. Wilson, page 65.
So just measure how far away from perfection you are --
how far away from "the degree of perfection
that God wishes for us here on earth" you are --
and Bill
Wilson says that is how much you sin.
Are you starting to feel
guilty and inadequate? Good. That is necessary for the brainwashing
to progress.
Remember that
Margaret Thaler Singer wrote,
in one of her books on cults, that an
essential element of any thought-control or brainwashing program is
"Create a sense of powerlessness, covert fear, guilt, and dependency."
Oh, and by the way, whatever happened to
Alcoholics Anonymous is not a religious organization.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
William G. Wilson, Foreword, page xx.
What happened to
"Alcoholics Anonymous requires no beliefs"?
Here, we are required to believe that God designed and built the world with
specific intentions in mind, and then badly screwed up the design,
and His invention doesn't work as He intended...
Bill Wilson is teaching us that God is actually an incompetent
Cosmic Design Engineer.
And we must also believe that God isn't getting His wishes granted.
We aren't as perfect as He wished. Gee, we aren't getting our pleasures,
or our wishes granted, and God isn't getting His wishes granted.
Nobody is happy. It would seem that "the Creative Intelligence,
the Spirit of the Universe", really royally
screwed things up, this time.
Someone is telling you that it is because people have free will,
and they are using their free will to screw things up?
No, there is no free will in Alcoholics Anonymous.
Remember Step One:
"We admitted we were powerless over alcohol..."
People who are powerless do not have a choice or any free will.
So Bill Wilson was playing both ends against the middle:
"You are powerless over your progressive fatal congenital disease, and you
can't control your drinking,"
they say,
"but you should feel guilty for being less than perfect, anyway.
And you should feel guilty for wanting to feel good, and for wanting
more satisfactions or pleasures than are due you."
That
double-bind
will drive you nuts.
Have a happy stay at the funny farm.
Don't commit suicide too soon...
39.
Mentoring
A.A. scores a 10.
This one is also easy to see. Everyone is supposed to get a sponsor when
they join (sometimes the sponsor is the recruiter who brought them in),
and some people continue to have a sponsor for the rest of their lives.
The sponsor makes the newcomer do the Twelve Steps, and make lists
of all of his or her faults, sins, "defects of character"
and "moral shortcomings",
and listens to his or her confessions.
The sponsor is supposed to answer all of the newcomer's questions,
and advise him or her on decisions and choices, and more or less
guide his or her recovery.
Some members actually claim that nobody ever outgrows the need for
a sponsor to supervise him or her and
to correct his or her
thinking, so they are never free of a mentor.
The sponsorship system also creates a pyramid-shaped hierarchy
of status and power in the organization. Many of the
members can even trace the chain of their sponsorship
back to the founders. That is, they might be the great-great-grandchild
of Bill Wilson or Doctor Bob by the lineage of who sponsored whom. But some
of the old-timers are not nearly that far down the pyramid. The closer
you are to the top, the greater your status and power.
In addition,
Time is power and rank within the organization.
The more sober Time someone has, the greater his rank,
and the more authority his words carry.
This pyramid-shaped power structure is one of the invisible ways that
newcomers are kept in line. There is an often-repeated slogan in A.A. that
says,
"Nobody has any power over anybody else."
But that simply is not true at all. Everyone is supposed to follow the
"advice" and orders of his or her
sponsor (or else you'll die drunk in a gutter, they say),
so the orders can trickle down from the very highest levels of
authority and power, and everyone is supposed to obey them.
A willingness to do whatever I was told to do simplified the
program for me.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, page 381.
Since I gave my will over to A.A., whatever A.A. has wanted of me
I've tried to do to the best of my ability.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, page 340.
And don't forget that many people (approximately 1/3 of the membership)
were coerced into A.A. by parole officers, judges, therapists or
counselors.1
There, somebody most assuredly has a lot of power over someone else.
In many cases, if those newcomers do not please their sponsors, so that the sponsors
send in satisfactory status reports on them, then the newcomers can be sent
to jail or prison. That's quite a threat.
The first couple of
editions of the Big Book did not even support the idea of
sponsors; the sponsor system is just one of those things that
developed over the years, and is now accepted custom.
Actually,
the idea and the terminology of "sponsors" was copied from Frank Buchman's
Oxford Group cult, along with most all of the rest of the A.A. religious
tenets and dogma.
Hence it is also an example of how, once a cult gets started,
it will begin to show more and more of the characteristics of
other cults. Cults learn from each other, and adopt each others' practices.
Mentoring is just another standard practice of many cults.
See "Members Get
No Respect. They Get Abused.", for more
information on abuse of the sponsor/sponsee relationship.
40.
Intrusiveness.
A.A. scores a 10.
A.A. sponsors are extremely intrusive, and often want to completely run the
new member's life, assuming that the member is incapable of running his own life.
As a matter of practice, A.A. assumes that new members
should not have any privacy. Newcomers are encouraged to "share all",
in meetings, and to their sponsors. Violating peoples' boundaries is standard
A.A. practice.
The slogan is
"You're Only As Sick As Your Secrets".
Many sponsors feel entitled to tell sponsees whom they should or
should not marry, which job they should take, and to decide what
sponsees should do with the rest of their lives.
Some sponsors are extremely intrusive.
Some sponsors even feel free to tell people not to take the medications
that a real doctor prescribed.
A.A. feels entitled to take up all of a member's spare time.
If someone chooses to spend a quiet evening alone, other members
will tell him,
"You're isolating. Let's get to a meeting."
Note that A.A. even has a standard negative term for someone
spending his time doing something besides wasting his life on
an endless series of pointless meetings: "isolating".
And Alcoholics Anonymous claims that it must come before everything
else in a member's life, including job, wife, and children:
"I decided I must
place this program above everything else, even my family, because if I
did not maintain my sobriety I would lose my family anyway."
The Big Book, 3rd Edition -- Chapter B10,
He Sold Himself Short, page 293.
Helping others is the foundation stone of your recovery.
A kindly act once in a while isn't enough.
You have to act the Good Samaritan every day, if need be. ...
Your wife may sometimes say she is neglected.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson,
Chapter 7,
Working With Others, page 97.
Though the family does not fully agree with dad's spiritual
activities, they should let him have his head. Even if he
displays a certain amount of neglect and irresponsibility towards
the family, it is well to let him go as far as he likes in
helping other alcoholics. During those first days of
convalescence, this will do more to insure his sobriety than
anything else. Though some of his manifestations are alarming and
disagreeable, we think dad will be on a firmer foundation than
the man who is placing business or professional success ahead of
spiritual development.
He will be less likely to drink again, and anything is preferable to that.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition, William G. Wilson, Chapter 9,
The Family Afterwards, pages 129-130.
Note how Bill Wilson equated A.A. busywork with "spiritual
activities".
Note the thinly-veiled blackmail: either let Dad waste all of
his time on A.A. activities, or else Dad will relapse and drink alcohol.
Apparently, Mother should not nag Dad about getting a job
("business or professional success");
that might threaten his "firmer foundation".
Mother can always go get a job in a department store, and work to
support Dad, like Lois Wilson had to do, while Bill made A.A.
activities
his full-time hobby
for nine years.
Apparently, Bill continued to neglect his wife.
In his next book, written a dozen years later, he wrote:
After the husband joins A.A., the wife may become discontented, even
highly resentful...
Her husband may become so wrapped up in A.A. and his new friends
that he is inconsiderately away from home more than when he drank.
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions, William G. Wilson, page 118.
So the little woman should just learn that A.A. comes first, and
he's going to spend all of his time on A.A. activities.
(Some women don't learn. I've met women who divorced their husbands
because their husbands quit drinking and joined Alcoholics Anonymous,
and devoted their whole lives to A.A..
The wives could tolerate their husbands drinking,
but A.A. was just too much.)
Bill Wilson also seems to have felt entitled to dictate whether
members' marriages should continue. He wrote
the following text in Chapter Seven of the Big Book,
the recruiter's manual,
as instructions to the recruiters in how to counsel their new
recruits:
If there be divorce or separation, there should be no undue haste for the
couple to get together.
The man should be sure of his recovery. The wife
should fully understand his new way of life.
[Before they get back together, the man must be securely
committed to A.A., and
she must fully understand and accept his new A.A. way of life.]
If their old relationship is
to be resumed it must be on a better basis since the former did not work.
This means a new attitude and spirit all around.
[Excuse me, but he drank too much. That was the problem.
There was not necessarily anything wrong with her, or their
"old relationship".
Bill Wilson isn't really going to claim that she drove him to
drink, now is he?
So why does she have to get
"a new attitude and spirit"?
For just one reason: she must learn to accept her new second-class status
in his life. She must understand that the A.A. program --
"his sobriety" -- comes first now, and she comes second.
That's the new attitude that she must get.]
Sometimes it is in the best interests of all concerned that a
couple remain apart.
[Yes, that way, she won't be a distraction.
A.A. can completely occupy and control his life, and won't have to
compete with her.
And if she won't approve of the A.A. program, then the marriage should end.]
Obviously, no rule can be laid down. Let the alcoholic continue his
program day by day. When the time for living together has come, it
will be apparent to both parties.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition -- Chapter 7,
Working With Others, William G. Wilson, page 99.
The new recruit should continue with the cult program of
guilt induction, confession sessions, phobia induction, and indoctrination.
He and his wife should remain apart until it is apparent to everyone that
he has surrendered to the cult, and she has finally accepted the fact
that A.A. will now dominate his life.
And if they divorce, Bill has this advice for the ex-wife:
But sometimes you must start life anew. We know women who have done it.
If such women adopt a spiritual way of life their road will be smoother.
The Big Book, 3rd Edition,
William G. Wilson, Chapter 7, "Working With Others", page 99.
Ideally, she should become a 12-step convert too,
and join Al-Anon and work Bill's Twelve Steps and become
a
guilt-ridden neurotic herself.

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to answers 41 to 50.

Footnotes:
1)
Bufe, Charles, Alcoholics Anonymous: Cult or Cure?, 1998,
2nd edition, page 88.
Bufe calculates that from 33 to 40% of current A.A. members were originally
coerced into attending A.A. meetings.

- 1. The Guru is always right.
- 2. You are always wrong.
- 3. No Exit.
- 4. No Graduates.
- 5. Cult-speak.
- 6. Group-think.
- 7. Irrationality.
- 8. Suspension of disbelief.
- 9. Denigration of competing sects, cults, religions...
- 10. Personal attacks on critics.
- 11. Insistence that the cult is THE ONLY WAY.
- 12. The cult and its members are special.
- 13. Induction of guilt, and the use of guilt to manipulate cult members.
- 14. Dogma, Unquestionable Dogma, and Sacred Science.
- 15. Indoctrination of members.
- 16. Appeals to "holy" or "wise" authorities.
- 17. Instant Community.
- 18. Instant Intimacy.
- 19. Surrender To The Cult.
- 20. Giggly wonderfulness and starry-eyed faith.
- 21. Personal testimonies of earlier converts.
- 22. The cult is self-absorbed.
- 23. Dual Purposes.
- 24. Aggressive Recruiting.
- 25. Deceptive Recruiting.
- 26. No Humor.
- 27. You can't tell the truth.
- 28. Cloning -- You must redefine yourself and your life in cult terms.
- 29. You must change your beliefs to conform to the group's beliefs.
- 30. The End Justifies The Means.
- 31. Dishonesty, Deceit, Denial, Falsification, and Rewriting History.
- 32. Different Levels of Truth.
- 33. Newcomers can't think right.
- 34. The Cult Implants Phobias.
- 35. The Cult is Money-Grubbing.
- 36. Confession Sessions.
- 37. A System of Punishments and Rewards.
- 38. An Impossible Superhuman Model of Perfection.
- 39. Mentoring.
- 40. Intrusiveness.
- 41. Disturbed Guru, Mentally Ill Leader.
- 42. Disturbed Members, Mentally Ill Followers.
- 43. Create a sense of powerlessness, covert fear, guilt, and dependency.
- 44. Dispensed existence
- 45. Ideology Over Experience, Observation, and Logic
- 46. Keep them unaware that there is an agenda to change them
- 47. Thought-Stopping Language. Thought-terminating clichés and slogans.
- 48. Mystical Manipulation
- 49. The guru or the group demands ultra-loyalty and total committment.
- 50. Demands for Total Faith and Total Trust
- 51. Members Get No Respect. They Get Abused.
- 52. Inconsistency. Contradictory Messages
- 53. Hierarchical, Authoritarian Power Structure, and Social Castes
- 54. Front groups, masquerading recruiters, hidden promoters, and disguised propagandists
- 55. Belief equals truth
- 56. Use of double-binds
- 57. The cult leader is not held accountable for his actions.
- 58. Everybody else needs the guru to boss him around, but nobody bosses the guru around.
- 59. The guru criticizes everybody else, but nobody criticizes the guru.
- 60. Dispensed truth and social definition of reality
- 61. The Guru Is Extra-Special.
- 62. Flexible, shifting morality
- 63. Separatism
- 64. Inability to tolerate criticism
- 65. A Charismatic Leader
- 66. Calls to Obliterate Self
- 67. Don't Trust Your Own Mind.
- 68. Don't Feel Your Feelings.
- 69. The cult takes over the individual's decision-making process.
- 70. You Owe The Group
- 71. We Have The Panacea.
- 72. Progressive Indoctrination and Progressive Commitments
- 73. Magical, Mystical, Unexplainable Workings
- 74. Trance-Inducing Practices
- 75. New Identity -- Redefinition of Self -- Revision of Personal History
- 76. Membership Rivalry
- 77. True Believers
- 78. Scapegoating and Excommunication
- 79. Promised Powers or Knowledge
- 80. It's a con. You don't get the promised goodies.
- 81. Hypocrisy
- 82. Denial of the truth. Reversal of reality. Rationalization and Denial.
- 83. Seeing Through Tinted Lenses
- 84. You can't make it without the cult.
- 85. Enemy-making and Devaluing the Outsider
- 86. The cult wants to own you.
- 87. Channelling or other occult, unchallengeable, sources of information.
- 88. They Make You Dependent On The Group.
- 89. Demands For Compliance With The Group
- 90. Newcomers Need Fixing.
- 91. Use of the Cognitive Dissonance Technique.
- 92. Grandiose existence. Bombastic, Grandiose Claims.
- 93. Black And White Thinking
- 94. The use of heavy-duty mind control and rapid conversion techniques.
- 95. Threats of bodily harm or death to someone who leaves the cult.
- 96. Threats of bodily harm or death to someone who criticizes the cult.
- 97. Appropriation of all of the members' worldly wealth.
- 98. Making cult members work long hours for free.
- 99. Total immersion and total isolation.
- 100. Mass suicide.
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